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[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Stop dating people; we don't need you in the pool.

The only other time I've heard this rhetoric was during the height of the "no one has to tell you their HIV status" discourse and the "masc4masc is internalized homophobia" discourse (among others that bombarded gay men in the 2010s). People are allowed to have their sexual boundaries whether or not it excludes you. That is part of the process of finding and establishing a romantic relationship.

Also, it's not just the genitals. It's every little bit of the body of the other sex that homosexuals don't want to touch intimately or be touched by.

[–]tu_jode_mucho 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wow I didn't know there was rhetoric encouraging omitting HIV status in the gay community. So everyone forgot the 80s?