Yep, this is the one. It only makes no sense until you realize they are not sincere in their claims to want true love and companionship. Their goal is to isolate lesbians, make them feel alone and wrong and shameful so that they can be coerced into making themselves sexually available for the fulfillment of these men's fetishes. Some of them simply don't care about consent, and for others the lack of consent is the point.

Of course there are plenty of trans people who don't think this way and genuinely want real companionship and etc, but they aren't the ones doing this kind of thing.