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[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Men of all sexualities, values and political perspectives patronize bathhouses, and it’s not uncommon for some of them to experience racism, ageism and other forms of discrimination. Trans men are equally vulnerable to this discrimination, in addition to transphobia.

Let me translate this: these men are told "no means no," "fuck off," or have guys actively evade them because they cannot read body language to save their lives and then whine and complain about how not having sex with them is "discrimination" because another person's body is, in their mind, a human right. Won't you ladies join them in the oh so tempting allure of playing the victim after being sexually violent?

[–]Rag3 10 insightful - 11 fun10 insightful - 10 fun11 insightful - 11 fun -  (2 children)

It’s so weird to include politics in a section about bathhouses. No shit all sorts of men go there with a variety of political views. Pretty sure that’s the last thing on their minds in a gay space lol.

“Stop sucking me. Are you a Republican or Democrat? I MUST KNOW!”

[–]our_team_is_winning 8 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

“Stop sucking me. Are you a Republican or Democrat? I MUST KNOW!”

You KNOW there are some gay Wokebros who would lose their shit to find out the other guy voted Trump.

[–]wendyokoopa1 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

I would say that this is not a before-dinner appetizer, no.

That cruising section...I realize this is a thing and has been forever, but women trying to do it (FTMs) is so very antithetical to being a woman and not getting raped or killed. Seems pretty danged seedy as well. I can't help but wonder: Is that a life goal for an FTM? Being able to cruise in parks and men's bathrooms?

https://media.giphy.com/media/xUPGczofzl3QEh4glW/giphy.gif

[–]julesburm1891 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Same. Like, are they trying to get raped and murdered? Because that section was nothing but advice that could easily lead to those results. It’s baffling to me that these women can delude themselves to the point they’ll actually put themselves in horrifyingly dangerous situations.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I thought about this post again while reading the one we discussed over here. This "sex guide" might more properly be termed grooming.

That doesn't help any of it make sense, but all of this together sure looks like an endemic, sociopathic level of misogyny (and likely homophobia)—any other explanation for targeting girls and young women either in the ways that parent alleges or with a "guide" such as the one above seems far-fetched.

[–]our_team_is_winning 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Think about the circumstances under which you will or won’t disclose to a potential sexual partner that you are trans

Why do they assume it won't be obvious? And that trying to deceive people isn't rape?

There hasn’t been any research about HIV or STI transmission risk for guys who’ve had genital surgery

No research. Sounds safe....

If your urethra was extended, you may pee a teaspoon’s worth during sex.

Men, you wanna weigh in on that one?

Do ANY of these yaoi porn brain women, aside from extreme porn performers, ever actually succeed in scoring a gay man?

The photo of the chick on her knees between the two beer bellies has just killed me.

[–]jiljol 8 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

They chose two self-hating lesbians for the cover. Gay with extra steps lol.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 7 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

At least they discus contraception and protection from STD's so thats something i guess

[–]our_team_is_winning 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

contraception

In spaces where men have sex with men, birth control has become an issue.

I need an animated gif of a TV character at a restaurant table signaling "bill, please."

[–]wendyokoopa1 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Here's my handy sex guide how about you train wrecks get help for your sociopathic entitlement problems? Hmm. TRIGGER WARNING FOR VIOLENCE AHEAD. The trans community wonders why they're getting beat up by stronger men and women they should look no further then the actions of some of the lgb of the past. The ones who would frequent straight bars with the hopes of "turning" a man or woman. Many of these individuals found themselves on the recieving end of a good right hook for their actions. They older lgb would wonder why the more normal allies would explain to them no isn't a challenge its no. The trans however? Especially the ftm trans? Are gonna fare much worse due to being biologically female. I mean bathhouses aside most of these idiots pull some of their shit in public bathrooms. BTW I used to use the man's washroom in emergencies and I could never imagine pulling the shit these people pull. I didn't even wash my hands after using the toilet. Just in and out. You're gonna see sadly a lot more violence against them. Part of me is for it and part of me hates that part of me. But they will have brought it on themselves and I will have no sympathy. Not that I have any anyways but.