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[–]Criticallacitirc 29 insightful - 11 fun29 insightful - 10 fun30 insightful - 11 fun -  (2 children)

we have talked about fucking in the future but basically taking it slow because we don’t want it to be the basic of the whole relationship and neither of us are that experienced.

A gay man in college wanting to take it slow? Lol! Girl, if he was actually into you, it would have happened already.

"Talked about fucking "....these kids!! So much focus on words & theory, instead of just...fucking.

[–]JulienMayfair 16 insightful - 6 fun16 insightful - 5 fun17 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

Just ran it through my memory banks. With every boyfriend I've had, it was sex on the first date.

[–]ThrowMeAway2879 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean, sometimes it was after the second date... and sometimes it was before the first date (i.e.: "hey, you are hot, the sex was good and you seem nice. Want to go out for a coffee sometime?"). There is no point in waiting months if you are both young and into each other.