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[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 19 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Is it becoming a thing for straight guys to pretend to be “gay” to sleep with transmen (and Im assuming quite a few of these “transmen” look very clearly female, maybe with like a “gender neutral” hair cut or some shit)? Or are these ladies just lying on the internet?

Because I know gay men aren’t actually sleeping with them.

Genuinely asking because these posts pop up a lot and I’m always so floored by the number of responses and I can’t tell if the commenters are full of shit or being played.

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Every "gay" guy I know who sleeps with transmen calls himself queer but secretly recognizes that he is bi. Most people read these guys as gay because they are feminine. Both worked for their respective AIDS Networks as outreach workers. One of them now is pursuing a PhD.