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[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

The F2Ms learned they can crash the party on any night, but it isn’t as fun because they will party alone if they do. So, space was made, nobody was replaced by someone else, and everybody had equal access. That’s an ethical change.

That's not an ethical change. For any actual homosexual man who is violated because there is a biological woman in an explicitly sexual space for men, they are experiencing sexual misconduct due to her presence (either as voyeur or exhibitionist). On the nights that center these women, those are nights that those men will not go to the bathhouse for the sake of their mental health. Those also may have been the only nights he had off from work so there goes access to one of the few spaces that centered same-sex attraction.

I follow the cruising listings on Squirt.org (in part because of my old job). I've seen what gay men have posted on the listings for bathhouses that allow transgender identified people and women (in general). Saying that we don't fucking like it isn't me projecting.

[–][deleted] 32 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 0 fun33 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah, I really don't see how that's a compromise. Trans men get to go any day they want on top of having 2 days a week dedicated specifically to them.

What do gay men even get out of this compromise? Trans men get what they want+more and gay men get fucking nothing. Great compromise.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A compromise is any situation in which the narcissist wins.