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[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 26 insightful - 3 fun26 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

Everything is 'lifesaving'. A friend of mine sent me an article about cross-sex hormones being 'lifesaving', and this friend has type-1 diabetes. If she doesn't get insulin she'll die. She was not impressed.

[–]bopomofodojo 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Any and all of the "lifesaving" treatments are simply part of the "do what we say or we suicide" gaslighting. Calling them such reaffirms that. It's despicable.

[–]wendyokoopa1 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I'm sick of that fucking gaslighting. I think I told this story on reddit but due to multiple bans on that website I can't even remember. Ok I have essentially 3 moms. 2 surrogates and of course my biological that I lovingly call Skerple now. All three women are essentially childhood friends that grew up, briefly grew apart, then reconnected and are thick as thieves. Lovely women really lovely women. Anyways one of the women a lady we'll call G for the purpose of protecting her privacy had a husband. Nice guy, smart, funny, really wonderful man. loved computers, and racing pigeons. Anyways I digress. During the pandemic her husband was receiving Chemotherapy as he contracted I believe Leukemia. Yes Bone Marrow or Blood cancer. Anyways a largely treatable cancer and he was set to ring the bell signalling the end of treatment and possible entrance in to cure/remission stage. He never got to ring that bell because covid hit and Canada canceled cancer treatments. He sadly died alone in hospital. But I should smile(I'm not) because some where some mentally ill childish freak show got it's surgery? Oh wow I can't contain my happiness(/s). You want to kill yourself so bad because YOU'RE(Not you guys) getting your own way with treatments? Here let us help. We can schedule you for euthansia Just say the word. Before you guys tell me I'm being mean I'm aware I'm being cruel but when people die and can't get life saving treatments or Women are pushed down on elective surgery beds for surgery that's more life saving then gender reassignment? you're damn right I'm going to be mean. There are women with PCOS, Women who have rotating mastitises, women with freaking breast cancer that would like reconstructive surgery but no they get pushed aside because we have to mollycoddle fucking children. I'm a kid at heart myself but even I know I have to wait for some of the stuff I Want and find alternatives for stuff I want and need. But the point is You want to kill yourself freak show? Here it maybe against the Oath but let us help you. We can get the drugs all squared away same day. I have no respect for these gaslighting pieces of shit. Especially not after losing the friend of the family especially when they whined for their stuff but cancer patients got shit on. Fuck you.

[–]bopomofodojo 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That's so heartbreaking, I'm very sorry for your loss. That's exactly how I felt when all the whinging about "life-saving trans surgeries getting postponed" at the start of COVID. Like, fine, you wanna an hero because you can't get your tits or dick chopped off during a fucking pandemic where people are dying alone in isolation wards? Fine, do it. It's complete psychopathic narcissism. They only care about themselves and their "validation" and know that threatening suicide is a very effective technique against morally astute, empathetic people (i.e. most people). "Thankfully" COVID in general (specifically the actions of some groups...) have completely trashed most of my "sympathy gas tank" at this point and I just don't care about whiny entitled people any more.

[–]wendyokoopa1 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Losing the long time family friend is what too drained my sympathy gas tank for them finally. I was ok with my surgery being delayed(Breast reduction due to infections) I wasn't ok with their stuff being covered as again it's not life saving. But losing Tom who was the sweetest, smartest man you'd ever meet so that possibly in canada some whinging cry baby could get it's parts fixed really fucking drained me. I now how have no chill around them. None. I will flaunt my ova and sing a modified Don't cha to them. "Don't cha wish you had ova like me?" "Dont' cha wish you could produce life like me?" BTW Thank you. I wasn't as you know looking for sympathy nor was his widow just sharing my story as to why they need to fuck off and die. I Think if more doctors just said Screw Hippocratic and offered to let them have euthanisa we might maybe see a positive spike downward. Probably not if that b.s in Manitoba is to be considered but we can hope.