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[–]Virginia_Plain 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

There is something really sad about the human condition that creates people like this. Real happiness is not in the cards. The hormones, the mastectomy, the name change, all for what? The guy that will "complete" her is someone else as broken: either a gay man who hates himself enough to push himself through it, or someone Machiavellian enough to prey on her hopes of getting a Real Live Gay in order to get an easy lay.

I'm gay. Not interested in FTM people. Don't care what level of surgery they get. Will even say some of them are good looking. But the sexual chemistry is not there. It can't be forced, and the inability to understand this is frightening. Thinkpieces in media outlets telling people to "critically examine" why they aren't interested are an absolutely fucked up mind game that benefit NO ONE in the long term. I really do wonder if there is some sort of psy-ops type thing going on, or if this is a symptom of a disintegrating society?

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 6 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

or someone Machiavellian enough to prey on her hopes of getting a Real Live Gay in order to get an easy lay.

There's also a third option: going full t4t and consuming lots and lots of concentrated cope, as MtFs already do.

Will even say some of them are good looking.

These are the ones who age the worst.

It's relatively easy for a FtM who gives a shit to look like a "soft boi" until their 30s, the magical age where they transition again to the full butch lesbian aesthetic.