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[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They happen. Not all the time, but enough that her story sounds plausible to me. I'm guessing it was organized through Fetlife given the sheer number of interesting characters she described.

Typically for something run by gay men, in another man's home, it's word of mouth/networking. The host tells a few guys who he trusts to make good choices who in turn follow suit. Pre-COVID, I heard of a guy locally who would host a weekly sex party for older men and charge $10 a head. The first bunch had just been guys he'd been FWBs with for a while and anything they knew who would be cool and interested. Anyone invited is, in essence, supposed to be pre-screened by the guy who extended the invitation. Disease is at your own risk because you can bring your own condoms.