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[–][deleted] 28 insightful - 16 fun28 insightful - 15 fun29 insightful - 16 fun -  (1 child)

So, since I don't like strap-ons or anal that means I have the right to disrespect trans women? That's what I'm taking away from this.

[–]fuck_reddit 12 insightful - 5 fun12 insightful - 4 fun13 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

With great power comes great responsibility: ‘misgender’ them at every opportunity.

[–]julesburm1891 28 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

trans lesbians worked way harder to be lesbians than any of you ever will

It’s almost like we aren’t cosplaying as something we aren’t and transbians are…

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That argument is so absurd. Not everything needs or can be worked toward. You work toward being a doctor, or a philanthropist, or a professional. You don't work toward being a certain race or ethnicity or being a certain height. And if you do try to change your race, people (rightfully) see you as a fool. To act like putting effort into being a lesbian is worth anything is to entirely undermine the point of being lesbian: it is an inherent property of someone, not a goal to be attained through effort

[–]hufflepuff-poet 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Also, it totally ignores the actual struggles lesbians have with accepting our homosexuality and coming out, even the mildest coming out is still a *significant mental and emotional drain.

Transbians don't have to deal with the "work of coming out" because they've always been allowed to "love women" and their struggles are all self-inflicted based on how deep they want their larping to go 🙄🙃 We. Are. Not. The. Same. 🥲

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[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 22 insightful - 3 fun22 insightful - 2 fun23 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

trans lesbians worked way harder to be lesbians

Trans "lesbians" never succeeded. Because they can never be lesbians. Because they can never be women. No matter how hard they try.

[–]censorshipment 17 insightful - 2 fun17 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Worked harder to be lesbians?? Is being a lesbian an occupation? To them it is because they work hard to occupy our spaces and pussies. 🥴😂

[–]dilsencySame-sex community 11 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

If a dildo or a strap-on started out flaccid and had to be enticed to become erect, I'm sure a lot of lesbians would be turned off by it.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Eh, I'm turned off by strapons in general, regardless o how they work. I could have some fantasy about taking a woman from behind in the prone bone position with it, but would be about the position specificlly and the feeling of control and hip movement, not the dildo, and only as occasioal playgame, no the center of my sex life. And have zero desire to take it. By this,I'm allowed to disrespect men in drags.