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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

I think is right though that there are less butches because they're more likely to transition comparing to the past, Must to be hard for the lesbians who love butches

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

She may be right about them transitioning but the reason why is all screwy... that because they are masculine they should live life as men and not as women is crazy. It’s the enforced binary of sex stereotypes.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

she just said that in the pat transitioning was a less accepted practice, which is true. Is she a butch or trans? Can't tell

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

in the pat transitioning was a less accepted practice, which is true

she's implying that butch women really want to be men and were just waiting for it to be more accepted to do it.

[–]julesburm1891 10 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

Because living as a butch woman has always been very socially acceptable.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

i meant waiting for transition to be more acceptable.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Some do want to be men, some have serious dysphoria toward their female body and are extremely masculine to the point they are more comfortable living socially as male and with a male looking body. I think butches are like super homo sthey got hit hard by testosterone in womb. I think real dysphoria is homosexuality extreme.

[–]Hannibalboy93 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Some of the fem lesbians seem to transition with them sometimes too. I see a lot of people only come out as trans because their friend transitioned too. A lot of them never would have even thought about transitioning had they never known about transitioning in the first place.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

how can fem lesbian transition? Makes no sense

[–]Hannibalboy93 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They transition to fem boys, just look at the straight girls becoming fem trans gay men.

[–]Hannibalboy93 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

So is her partner Bi then, because she expects her partner to still love her after transition, which wouldn't make her a lesbian by her own standards. My god, the mental gymnastics of these people.

[–]Ladis_Wascheharuum 21 insightful - 18 fun21 insightful - 17 fun22 insightful - 18 fun -  (2 children)

No, no, you see, lesbians are non-men who love non-men, so a lesbian would still love her girlfriend after transition. But trans men are men, and you're a bigot if you question that. Lesbians should be open to dating trans women because they are women, but they should be open to dating trans men, because they're non-men, or rather they used to be, but they were always really men. Also you can be a he/him lesbian.

I hope I cleared that up.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 20 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 2 fun21 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Trans men are only men when it’s convenient for them.

[–]MBMayfair 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This was brilliant. Bravo!

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

They do seem to date lesbians rather than harassing straight women. Only group of trans people who does it that way too. Every other one goes after the group that's explicitly not interested in them and tries to harass their way into sex.

Though I think there was a post on here about a lesbian dating a trans man and she was basically being forced to identify as bisexual both by her partner and her LGBT friends.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I hope that lesbian is able to get away from her insane girlfriend and her unsympathetic "friends". If I had a boyfriend and he demanded I call myself bi because he wants to live as a woman, I’d break up with him. If that means losing friends, then so be it.

I find it so ironic that there’s a "community' that brags about being supportive and open-minded, and then force one of their own to pretend to be something she is not. Disgusting.

[–]censorshipment 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Damn she is good-looking. 🥵 I think I have a fetish for older women in general lol I LOVE women with gray short hair who don't wear makeup. And the way she speaks is such a turn on too.

But in response to what she said... she's right lol the butch-to-trans pipeline is successful now. It's the lesbian equivalent of black women getting BBL (Brazilian Butt Lifts)... the flat ass to big ass pipeline. 🥴

https://mtonews.com/atlanta-airplane-overrun-w-women-coming-back-from-butt-surgery-video

All 24 of the women in wheelchairs were flying back after getting some form of surgical operation in the Caribbean nation, most of them BBLs (or Brazilian Butt Lifts).

It's hard seeing my demographics alter themselves with cosmetic surgeries / hormones. I'm about to hit 40, so I'm entering the peri-menopausal group of women too who are insecure about being hairy and want to use estrogen. God help me.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That was educational—I guess I haven't thought all that much about butt lifts. Evidently that is the most dangerous cosmetic surgery procedure there is, too. Damn.