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    [–]Kai_Decadence[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    Oh a little clarification. I'm a gay effeminate man. I usually get the "You're jealous" accusation from trans-identified males.

    Also - I’m not being rude or denigrating gay men - but if you are gay you can find sex wherever, someone is always willing - it’s finding someone you want to have relations with that is the issue.

    And yes this is true but where i am in live, I'm looking for something more than hookups so that's why I struggle more with a nearly dead dating life lol. i turn 30 this month and I came out at 16 and I can say that I went through my 20s never being in any relationship.

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      [–]Kai_Decadence[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

      Yeah I sometimes get that but it's true, it's not been easy because I'm a magnet for closet-cases and I'm not willing to deal with that lol.