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    [–]Elvira95Viva la figa 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    The last phrase I think is the same for lesbians. Finding sex is easier, so many bi girls. or bicurios Finding actual relationship with someone compatible is a lot of different ball game. As the number of women into sleeping with women and the one seriously romantically into women to the poit of being able to have a successful long term relationship, are very different, and the second poll is really, really small; and in this small poll you need mutual attraction and compatibility, it's quite hard and get harder with age. But for sex, much easier than an average man.

    [–]Kai_Decadence[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    Oh a little clarification. I'm a gay effeminate man. I usually get the "You're jealous" accusation from trans-identified males.

    Also - I’m not being rude or denigrating gay men - but if you are gay you can find sex wherever, someone is always willing - it’s finding someone you want to have relations with that is the issue.

    And yes this is true but where i am in live, I'm looking for something more than hookups so that's why I struggle more with a nearly dead dating life lol. i turn 30 this month and I came out at 16 and I can say that I went through my 20s never being in any relationship.