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[–][deleted] 34 insightful - 8 fun34 insightful - 7 fun35 insightful - 8 fun -  (4 children)

Nah I have a genital preference. I'd never date a girl WITHOUT a penis.

Cool, that's called being a straight women. Or more likely given what sub that's on, a gay man.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I feel sad for any actual young lesbians who stumble into that sub. It must really fuck with their heads.

[–][deleted] 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's so gross in there. I sincerely hope any young lesbians going in there see how gross it is and leave and don't get involved.

Everything in there is just so obviously written by teen boys. A lot of it is just straight up objectification of women too.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It fucks with my head and I'm an adult lesbian who knows that it's bs! This sub is a huge part of why so many young lesbians are trying to trans, they think lesbianism is the same as straight male sexuality and on that sub, they're not wrong.

[–]reluctant_commenter 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yep, sure did with mine when I first started reading it a little over a year ago...

I have shown AL to two friends recently, though, and it shocked them and made them realize how homophobic the transgender movement can be. So now I have some moral support at least, lol.

[–]julesburm1891 31 insightful - 5 fun31 insightful - 4 fun32 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

I was with a very butch woman who had this adorable moment the first time I stayed over where she giggled and said “this is so cool. I never in a million years thought I’d be this close to one of these!”

Bruh, your fan fiction is just embarrassing now. You didn’t turn any woman because it’s clear she’s just a figment of your imagination.

[–]Rag3 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I had to read this comment a few times. I thought he was saying “I never thought I’d be this close to one of these (a lesbian).” 😮 How creepy would that have been lol. The fanfic thankfully never happened.

[–]Poppy29252Natal Cat Woman 32 insightful - 2 fun32 insightful - 1 fun33 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Genitals are just really weird when you think about them, which is why I try not to

Like vaginas are a little gross all the time if you think about it

I think I'm the weirdo on this one but I'm not a huge fan of genitals either way

I refuse to believe any of these people are over 18 or have had a healthy sexual relationship.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They do sound like 13 years old virgins.

[–]reluctant_commenter 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

A surprising amount are young teenagers, like 15 or younger. I'm not sure if you've ever clicked through their profiles but mid 20s or older men and young teenage girls seem to be the two biggest demographics on that sub.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And this is why so many young lesbians are noping out of lesbianism, they're surrounded by straight men larping as lesbians and they think their inability to relate to these hetero men actually means that the young women are not lesbians and the transbians are totally "normal and valid lesbians". R/actuallesbians is a freak show of cognitive dissonance that can only exist on the internet, if all of these people were in a room together, the girls would realize the truth and nope tf out of that cesspit of male entitlement.

[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 25 insightful - 13 fun25 insightful - 12 fun26 insightful - 13 fun -  (2 children)

"TERFs in this sub are a very lonely bunch. Impotent and pitiable. Sad that I won’t date them because of their gross vaginas /j"

Sure, bud! You big old lesbian you!

[–]julesburm1891 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Sounds pretty much exactly like when incels bitch about women “thinking they’re special” because we have vaginas.

[–]soundsituationI myself was once a gay 10 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I know ‘impotent’ can have a more generic meaning, but I think it's great that it's this r/dickvalidation user's choice insult.

[–]SerpensInferna 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So gross. The comments are all so gross. Bleh I need to go shower.

[–]Beryl 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This entire thread just proves that there are no lesbians left on the sub.

[–]ThiccDropkickGay 13 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 4 fun14 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I’ll have you know they’re nothing like yucky BOY’s dicks 🤢🤢 they’re impotent and shrivelled soft and feminine and squishy ladydicks! uwu /s

That sub is beyond hope

[–]reluctant_commenter 14 insightful - 3 fun14 insightful - 2 fun15 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

archive link of original post: https://archive.is/4Q4l3

archive link of Removeddit comments: https://archive.is/P5yVC

Some comments that got removed by moderators:

What? No.. no penis whatsoever

This entire thread is filled with bigoted comments suggesting that women who feel innately attracted to vaginas only should “unpack the transphobic root of their genital preference”, so I was suggesting that maybe the downvotes are coming from a place more reasonable than TERF ideology?

I get what you’re saying to an extent. But to be honest, there are legit NET POSITIVE posts on this sub telling women to “unpack the transphobic root of their aversion to penises” even though many of us have spent our entire fucking lives coming to terms with our attraction towards female sexual organs, so I’m not really buying the TERF allegations when this entire thread is filled will people provoking women (whether trans or straight!) into defending what is a 100% natural sexual preference. My god, what if I went to trans spaces and told people that they were shallow for committing to gender reaffirming surgery because it’s “not the genitals that count”. That may be true for some, but I shudder to think that there are comments routinely posted on this sub berating lesbians as transphobic for not liking dick. The moderation has made it clear that these posts are 100% acceptable, despite the glaringly obvious bigotry. It’s frankly gross.

I’m a lesbian. Female genitalia is central to my sexuality, so sue me!

but genitalia preferences exist and that’s not something people can control???? doesn’t make them idiots either

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No dissent will be tolerated thanks ladies. Know your place.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Another removed comment:

Comment:It just takes the right penis

Reply: What an asinine thing to say. You do realize that biological women who identify as lesbians have been hearing this our whole lives, right? It does not take the right penis. It takes men not invading our spaces and boundaries and policing who I can and cannot have sex with.

Full mask off moment, mods had to delete it cus the homophobia was too blatant. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[–]reluctant_commenter 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, it was too blatant. Yet that is basically what most of these memes are saying.

Makes me so furious. It's just repackaged homophobia, all of it. Sometimes I debate just posting this stuff to public social media, just because I'm pretty sure most straight people have no idea that stuff like this is going on.

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

God help me, that meme made me laugh. Unintentionally highlights their absurdity.

[–]reluctant_commenter 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You know what lol, if you can get a laugh out of this insanity, I'd call that a win.