It seems to me, from both real life interactions and browsing dark corners of the internet for many years now, that there is a large percentage of men who genuinely dislike or hate women while desiring them. I've also come across a surprising (or not?) number of gay men who are contemptuous of women.

Lesbians are not immune, and in this case, are the focus of their rage because of their complete lack of desire for men and their setting of boundaries. Men apparently completely lose their shit when women set boundaries.