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[–]Criticallacitirc 45 insightful - 1 fun45 insightful - 0 fun46 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I always laugh at these larping women when they say they regularly go to bathhouses. Firstly bathhouses are on the decline and it's very easy to find gay men who have never been to one. So to see these larpers act as if it is still an important part of gay mens lives is ridiculous and disconnected from reality.

Secondly, a bathhouse really is the pinnacle of how male homosexuality expresses itself. Sex driven, anonymous, aggressive, emotionless, entirely driven by how you look. These are the same people who try to say that attraction/sex is more than the body/genitals its about the person. Yet they claim to be regulars who wander into temples devoted to the male body and male genitals.

If it were true, there'd be way more posts crying because they were unable to hookup at the bathhouse. In my younger days I used to go and there would be many nights I'd strike out ( I consider myself conventionally attractive, especially when I was young ) so they claim that these misshapen women are having regular success at gay bath houses really is laughable.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 23 insightful - 7 fun23 insightful - 6 fun24 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

I have a funny story related to gay bathhouses! When my best friend first came out as gay, I was the first person he told and I wanted to take him to a gay club to meet guys. I was still living the closeted life, even to myself. So I didn't really know any gay clubs,and looked some up on yelp. Welp, the spot I suggested was actually a gay bathhouse and when we pulled up it was closed and didn't look like a club. I showed him the yelp and he reads a few reviews and starts laughing and tells me that this isn't a club, it's a bathhouse for gay guys to meet and hook up. Lol my female self would definitely not have been a welcome sight at this spot! We laughed, he teased me and we found a cool gay spot in the city and danced the night away! Ahhh the good ole days, before gender came to town 😭

[–]Rag3 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That’s a cute story. 😂

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 17 insightful - 4 fun17 insightful - 3 fun18 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

Not if there are bi men there also. An easy hook up with a boyish female who needs validation sex lol

[–]Criticallacitirc 19 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I'm not bi , so I can't say. However in my experience Bi men enter these spaces to get something they aren't getting in their regular life, cock.

[–]Ladis_Wascheharuum 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Never been to one, but I could see a bi man who "struck out" with men, as you say, going, "Eh, good enough" and settling for the desperate woman.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I will tell bi friend stay clear she look type b fake pregnancy for attention.