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[–]dramasexual 22 insightful - 2 fun22 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Honestly I could understand why a straight woman might feel uncomfortable changing around me and wouldn't begrudge her that at all. I'd be open to alternative options like a private stall or a separate changing area or something if there were an issue. I would never want to make a woman feel uncomfortable about potentially being sized-up sexually in a vulnerable situation like that.

[–]boypower 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Damn, straight women have lesbians WHIPPED. If I was asked to move to another space because my homosexuality was bothering other men, I'd never come back to such a place.

[–]dramasexual 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Eh, it's something about the universal female experience of constantly being on guard for threats of sexual violence. I'd have a lot of empathy for a woman who feels uncomfortable undressing around someone who may be viewing her sexually. I can't say I've ever had it come up, though, especially because I (along with every other lesbian I know tbh) go out of my way to not be leering at women in locker rooms or what have you.