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[–]MyLongestJourney 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I really wonder why you make those kind of posts (which are out of this subs purpose) here and not in s/lesbians.

[–]reluctant_commenter 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

When I was on s/lesbians, people were sometimes really hurtful. So if I were to post about a topic I felt at all vulnerable about, pertaining to being a lesbian, I would definitely come to this sub first.

I was thinking of starting a sub for bisexual/lesbian women, though, which could also be a place for these sorts of discussions. But, until s/LGB is up and running, the mods have said that s/LGBdroptheT is a perfectly good place for these sorts of topics.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

When I was on s/lesbians, people were sometimes really hurtful. So if I were to post about a topic I felt at all vulnerable about, pertaining to being a lesbian, I would definitely come to this sub first.

Thank you for understanding.

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No problem :) and for the record, you and I are not the only ones who feel that way. I used to chat with multiple other people who left not only s/lesbians but Saidit in general after some of the vitriolic threads on that sub.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Because I had trouble there unfairly.

[–]MyLongestJourney 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Right.