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[–][deleted] 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We know how to fucking say no. What we want is to not be bullied and harassed for saying no.

[–]SolRosenberg 25 insightful - 5 fun25 insightful - 4 fun26 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Guys like this need to start walking the walk and have sex with boy pussy.

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"You can say no, but if you don't we will harass you out of the few spaces in your local area that once prioritized same-sex attraction."

[–]hellonumpty 20 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Women are often encouraged to give someone a chance - usually a man she has no interest in, but he has an interest in her, often to the point of being creepy or inappropriate. All the shit trans people say about dating reminds me of this a lot. Plus saying no is much harder when 'no' is considered bigoted and on the same level as a hate crime.

The proof, other than countless people speaking out about it and actual evidence online of trans people saying this stuff, is in their ideology. The idea that you refuse to date trans people is rooted in 'cis-sexism' is what they say.

Edit: Forgot to add - same sex attraction is now being referred to as a dog whistle, so don't know what planet this lad is on but it's not earth.

[–]jim_steak 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

These people are so ridiculous because even they don't believe what they're saying. If you ask them they'll all tell you it's transphobic for gay people to reject trans people. "If you're not interested just say so" That's what we are saying, and that's what's pissing you off.

[–]SerpensInferna 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, this bloke is clearly sheltered and needs to be educated. We are saying so, and we get at worst, death and rape threats, and at best, unhinged whinging.

[–]Femaleisnthateful 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He's entirely missing the point that it's the T claiming to be oppressed if lesbians don't 'swipe right'.

Also pointedly avoids the question about same-sex attracted people demonstrating publicly.

[–][deleted] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

While sure people online do represent a minority of people ultimately the organizations/activists that do represent trans people don't seem interested in ensuring proper boundaries out of a need for validation. It doesn't help society seems to want to change language itself in order to be more "inclusive" and to deny reality. Said minority shouldn't be tolerated especially when they only look for aggressive policies to ensure they get what they wish and ignore the basic rights of others while gas lighting them.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

And the fact that some people say they're oppressed because a trans LGB person swiped right left on them on Tinder... like give me a break.

FTFY

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Well, you can say no technically speaking, but if you say so, we'll scream bloody murder at you and systemically harass you until either you cave or are spelled from the spaces that should be accepting of same-sex attracted people."

Aham...

[–]reluctant_commenter 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A few 2016 Tumblr posts from aggressive keyboard warriors

Denial and minimization. Oh, yeah, it's just 2 people on Tumblr saying this, is it? No. There are TONS of publications by self-described "LGBTQ+" media and news outlets who claim to be allies of "the gays," that shame LGB people for our same-sex attraction.

Examples:

There are many more. I keep meaning to do a whole post on this.

edit: Just made a post, lol. https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/8c1v/list_of_lgbtq_media_outlets_that_shamevillainize/

[–]spanishprofanity 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Can I say 'no 🚂s' on my dating profile?"

"That's transphobic, bigot. You need to re-evaluate your genital preferences and understand why they're problematic, hurtful, and violent to trans people"

"..."