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[–]usehername 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Kai. Please don't deprive the world of your beautiful smile. I don't really have a way with words, but anyone who would try to make you feel less than just for being yourself is truly pathetic. Men like you are special and rare. I don't know what to say to you as far as dating goes, but your worth is immeasurable and I think the work you've been doing is amazing. Just take care of yourself. If this is too much for you, it's okay to step away from the fight.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Thank you, I do appreciate the kind words. I'm admittedly in a downer spot at this time but knowing myself, I'll more than likely bounce back soon. I just needed to vent because after losing the one last person who I thought would at least understand my point of view just really got to me.

[–]usehername 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I was disowned by my family, so I know what it's like to lose people. I'm glad you have this place to vent. I don't really have anything comforting to say, just that I hope you stay safe.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Oh my I'm so sorry you went through that...

[–]usehername 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I guess what I actually should have said was that it's okay. I know you probably feel lonely and betrayed, but you're better off without people like that.