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[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Actual asexuality is extremely rare, but most people who identify as (and it is an identity for them) asexual are likely one of the following:

  • Inexperienced teens and young adults who haven't had a sexual relationship, or aren't as hypersexual as they think everyone else is (which most people aren't)

  • People who have experienced sexual trauma or sexual abuse, or have had poor experiences in sexual situations and therefore do not want to experience it again

  • Gay men and lesbians who aren't interested in the opposite sex but don't understand that they are actually sexually attracted to the same sex

  • People who want to continue having sex but need to spice up their identity without having to change a thing about themselves and their relationship, so they say they're asexuals who still have sex (also see: non-binary people who call themselves non-binary women and men)

[–]Shales123 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Another one: people who didn't have a healthy puberty due to ED