Henlo. I'm not sure if post like this belongs here but I don't know any other place to share my tho(ugh)ts.
I believed before that asexuality is legitimate (definition of asexuality I believed in: A person feeling no sexual attraction whatsoever in any shape or form and not interested in any relationships)
but all of this ''asExUaLiTy Is a SpEcTrUm1'' , ''AsExUaLs cAn WiNk oFf, bE In rElAtIoNsHiPs, LoVe AnD enJoY ShReX1'' talk plus all this split attraction model crap honestly made me change my mind.
NEWSFLASH: Just because you are not hurny 24/7, you don't have shrex with random people on the street you just met, have low libido, are not interested in / cannot commit to relationships, your relationship is dying out, you have some bizzare paraphilias that can't be fullfiled in real life or have medical / mental health issues does NOT and I repeat this: NOT mean that you are unique or deserve your own special label!!!
HOW MANY ''types of attractions'' there are for friggity frick's sake?! Platoromantic? Quasidemoromantic? Bimbaspiritual? Minesexual? Why should normal feelings or emotions count under new type of attraction?
I don't understand. I genuinely don't understand. Can someone enlighten me? Because it seems like all of this ''ace spec'' crap is just an meaningless and made up as all of these ''non binary genders''.
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