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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I still hate how a typical male haircut is related to lesbianism though. Don't even see all that rebellious of looking masculine lol I mean nothing wrong with someone who naturally likes it, but the stereotype and expectation of masculnity in a woman into women that I dislike

[–]hufflepuff-poet 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I get that, I hate that lesbianism is tied to female gender non-conformity, not all lesbians are "masc", most aren't! It makes it hard to approach feminine women because I assume they're straight and that's not fair to those women or to "masculine" straight women who are always asked "are you a lesbian?".

I definitely find undercuts and buzzcuts attractive on women but it's mainly the confidence that a woman with an unconventional haircut tends to carry herself with that I'm attracted to, and the feeling of running my hand over her long hair and the fuzzy undercut part if she has long hair 😻 When a woman mixes "masculine and feminine traits" and has her own confident vibe, I swoon, especially if she's got long hair mixed with "masculine traits/energy".

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I only swoon for women with feminine energy, and here is way I will never not date bisexuals, they are the type that I like, very gender conforming. I actually found myself attracted to some tomboy they had traits that I usually like a lot like big eyes or some very feminine babyface. But the problem would be mannerism, or more like the character trait, as I'm not into any dominant or women wanting pseudo-heterosexual roles. I like confidence, sure it's hot when someone know what she likes and is sure in herself. Although I'm more attracted to kindness as main trait and empathy rather than a woman trying to look confidence all the time, which sounds fake anyway, as someone not wanting to open up in their worries and fears.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This is my personal taste as well. I don't care if a woman tries to look confident all the time. And looking "tough" even turns me off. In fact, it's the mysterious, shy sweet girl in her little corner which will make me feel intrigued and curious about. For me, it's empathy and kindness that turn me on the most as well. However, to each their own and it's great that we're all different and have different tastes!

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

the mysterious, shy sweet girl in her little corner

We like the same girl, that's a war lol

But for real, yeah, it's nice we're all different and want different things as there is love and interest for any type of woman as it should be. My ideal woman is smart, logical, resilient, empathetic, caring, kind, sweet, romantic and sexually passionate. My bestfriend and equal. That's it.