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[–][deleted] 31 insightful - 9 fun31 insightful - 8 fun32 insightful - 9 fun -  (1 child)

To be completely honest, I don't feel attracted to her much at all lately. I've been thinking that even though I am pansexual, I lean gay or at least am homoromantic. I don't feel much of a spark between us anymore and often find myself daydreaming about having a boyfriend.

My brain just wants to give up at this point.

[–]bolla_top 22 insightful - 12 fun22 insightful - 11 fun23 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

A guy posing as a woman dating a woman posing as a man. It seems like they would be able to encompass gay, straight, pan or any other orientation.

[–]JoeyJoeJoe 28 insightful - 11 fun28 insightful - 10 fun29 insightful - 11 fun -  (1 child)

The mental acrobatics required to keep track of who and what is going on is rather taxing! What a vortex of role-playing bullshit.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is like the meme where the guy has pushpins and strings all connected on the board.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 28 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Amazing how I started to read and was immediately "this is not something a woman would do". Then I read it was a transgender woman. Jeez. Gender identity is so bs. And this trans man is acting like a typical woman as well, and unfortunately one that has dealt with a lot of abuse. You can't change your sex!!!!!!!!!

[–]hellonumpty 23 insightful - 9 fun23 insightful - 8 fun24 insightful - 9 fun -  (1 child)

I am not interested in bottom surgery and neither is she. HRT does not 100% guarantee that you will become infertile for either sex. I'm on T and she is not on E yet.

ffs.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 18 insightful - 13 fun18 insightful - 12 fun19 insightful - 13 fun -  (0 children)

So a straight men who is not even putting effort into his woman larp abusing a straight girl who think she's a gay men.

What a wild ride.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 16 insightful - 11 fun16 insightful - 10 fun17 insightful - 11 fun -  (0 children)

I have to admit I laughed when I saw the title in he link... then when she called putting on woman’s clothing “crosdressing” hahaha

[–]TiredTrendersSuper-gay 18 insightful - 5 fun18 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

So basically a man and woman in a heterosexual relationship but with extra spice? And the guy (MtF) guiltrips and bribes the woman (FtM) into doing things she's not comfortable with? Groundbreaking.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 11 insightful - 7 fun11 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Truly sticking it to the patriarchy and gender roles! Q*eer is revolutionary 🤡

[–]GoValidateYourselfuseful lesbian 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ignoring the obfuscating gender language: I am glad that woman (the OP) finally broke up with her abusive pos boyfriend. I also hope she is able to leave her abusive home. This is so sad

[–]DimDroog 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I feel so stupid, legit thought it was two lesbians, until I started to read the comments on here.

Holy hell, this poor girl.