Gay MenThey’re so close to getting it.

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[–]spicebutton 36 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 0 fun37 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

They always go to their own niche subreddits to validate their delusions and assuage them of their guilt. "Hey subreddit specifically made to validate my narcissism, am i invading gay spaces? i feel guilty. I wont ask gay people. Instead, i'll ask other invaders"

Answer:"Oh my god! You're so vaAaAaaALiD! You belong in gay spaces! I invite you in even though im just a straight girl posing as a gay guy just like you!"

Response: "Thanks guys. My conscience was bothering me but now i feel all better. Any real gay guy who disagrees is a disgusting bigot."

[–]julesburm1891[S] 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. She knows she’s in the wrong, but she doesn’t actually want to hear that. So, she’s asking all her other larper friends instead of asking even one actual gay guy.

[–]ThrowMeAway2879 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Eh. They can also go to any of the moderated-to-hell-and-back subs like r/AskGayMen where people who'd tell it to them straight (hehe) would get banned.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They always go to their own niche subreddits to validate their delusions and assuage them of their guilt.

Reminds me of these quotes: "advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't", and "when we ask advice we are usually looking for an accomplice".

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh damn this. It gives me a severe eye-roll when I see that.

[–]Rosefield 27 insightful - 6 fun27 insightful - 5 fun28 insightful - 6 fun -  (3 children)

Knowing I’ll always be seen as a straight girl even though there’s a gay man stuck in there, locked away if infuriating and heart breaking

Help there is a closeted gay man inside my straight girl's body!! 😒

Batshit insane bullshit. There is no gay man somehow stuck somewhere inside her. All that's there are a straight woman's sick gay fetish fantasies she invented to cope with her mental health problems.

That's what gay men are for these women - a coping mechanism.

[–]GayBoner 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I feel victimized 😭

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Ehhh this is why I roll my eyes at people who are like "trans and gay" what I immediately translate it "straight but make yourself queer as fuck this way". I found a straight girl with removed breasts calling herself gay and a twink. She doesn't even pass.

[–]Destresse🇨🇵 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Sounds so very young.

I've been thinking about that lately, how lots of ftms on the internet sound like teenagers or very young adults. How I'd usually give this population a free pass because, you know, young and stupid, I've been there. But the amount of power they've accumulated over the years is, uh, concerning. And invalidates the free pass. Now we're living in thought-police land.

It's hard for me to adapt and find a way to react.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah. I used to ignore it on the same premise until I realized how successful they are in pushing their stupidity. Now I am no longer ignorant and look at it concerned.

[–]shveya 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

"I often hear gay standup comedians make jokes about being closeted and having sex with a cis woman and how they new they were gay when they saw the vagina. I know it's a joke and all but it's painful to hear."

Yet she'll still go after gay men IRL, knowing full well how they feel.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

"I often hear gay standup comedians make jokes about being closeted and having sex with a cis woman and how they new they were gay when they saw the vagina. I know it's a joke and all but it's painful to hear."

Reality is painful.

[–]shveya 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Especially when you're convinced the entire world should play along with your delusions.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Such narcissists, everything has to be about them. Even other people's sexual trauma?!

[–]Retardation_station 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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. . .I have a lot to unlearn.

That's the most horrifying word humans have ever created. This seriously makes me want to tear my own head off. Self-gaslighting.

[–]hellonumpty 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The few posts from that sub that have been posted here have really made me think, even more so than before, that these 'gay trans men' are women who've taken their fetish of gay men to the absolute extreme.

[–][deleted] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

She feels guilty, but not guilty enough to actually ask gay men if she's invading or not.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've thought about what it'd be like if I joined a dating app for gay men. Lots of handsome cis men and then there's me, very feminine, I feel like I'd just be seen as a fetishizer and not a legitimate gay man. Everyone around me just wants to convince me it'd just be a much easier life being a straight cis woman, that it's not even worth it. It feels so wrong though, so I don't even understand why I also feel so weird and like a black sheep in the place I know I belong.

"Hey you guys, my delusions aren't working!"

i fucking felt that on so many fucking levels. However I happen to be bi but i prefer saying I'm gay.

And this is why we can't have nice things.

https://www.reddit.com/r/gaytransguys/comments/p2v0ut/tw_might_trigger_dysphoria_does_anyone_else/h8pl3hb/

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

https://archive.ph/oOCou