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[–][deleted] 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm guessing this was a relationship that started before she came out as trans. The guy seems to be sticking with the relationship for god knows what reason, but is unwilling to play pretend with her.

This happens to straight women a lot. The man will just be a normal man, get her to marry him, have kids together, etc. Then he springs his trans identity on her and then tries to pressure her into identifying as a lesbian to feed his fetish. And the woman's just there trying to make it work for the kids, but dying inside.

But the guy in this story is just a boyfriend, not a husband, so kids likely aren't involved, so I don't get why he hasn't ran for the hills yet.

[–]linda_senora 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The poor women married to AGPs are terrified of the backlash.

AGPs are quite abusive and violent, and LGBT groups will side with the AGP and start harassing the AGP's wife. I am not surprised many women do not voice their complains.