I think main stigma with gay men is still coming from two sides - first is fear of losing sales, and second is that wokes are seeing gays in very homophobic way. Plus wokes are promoting the idea that gay men are all very focused on sex and wearing bdsm costumes. I still remember when in USA Democrates removed politician because he "was not really representing gay people" - as he "was not looking gay". That man was just normal looking lawyer in suite, but seems for them gay is "way of life" (identity) and not sexual orientation.

In cases with lesbians it is mostly bisexual women, who have, had or will have interest in male characters. And even if those are real lesbians, - it is mostly seen in movies - then they are often either raped or have some other relationship with men, like "forced marriage", etc.

Lesbians are oversexualized in majority of cases and there to get more attention from male audience. In japanese animation there even more kinds of this, especially with something like "Yuri bait" - when two women or teen girls are shown as almost girlfriend and in almost intimate relationship, but in the end they will both end without any real relationship between each other and dating men. Thought korean media have the opposite "gay bait", when two androgynous "non-threatening looking" young men are doing same as in "Yuri bait" (I wonder if that is the reason why so many transmen who are harassing gays are listening k-op?).