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[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Well on the dating front, it's just been a little rough tbh. I've been trying to date as GNC feminine gay man for 9 years now. Started when I was 20 and I'll be 30 next month and throughout this period, it's been unrequited mutual attraction, creepy old guys, and closet-case "Chasers". It just feels like I may have to accept that if I want to continue being myself, I'll more than likely have to accept being single forever because after asking what others thought about my appearance in the past and how most were telling me to start looking more masculine or the minority half trying to push me into ridiculous trans ideology, it's just gets mentally taxing at times.

And when I try to find other Gender nonconforming gay men to just vent with and talk with, I'm bombarded with the "Gender woo" crap and it's just aggravating.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I hope you will find someone. You sounds like a very good person, who would make a good partner. Life can be unfair.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Aw thanks. I guess I'll just have to see for the future lol.