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[–]reluctant_commenter 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

In the context of people being shamed for using the word "breastfeeding" and being told they should be using "chestfeeding"-- this strikes me as a tone-deaf move.

In an ideal world, all children would have the ideal upbringing with access to the best resources, and (I haven't looked into it extensively, feel free to correct me) it seems like there's a lot of evidence to suggest that breastfeeding is better than formula for babies. I don't think parents should be shamed for not being able to provide that... But, as this article points out, shaming formula feeders like Tan France is not the point of the awareness week or whatever it is:

“Totally agree that there should be no shaming in how we feed our children but that’s not what breastfeeding week is about,” someone else wrote. “It’s about promoting support for new mothers, better quality information and guidance so that breastfeeding isn’t shamed.”

The truly ironic part is that he seems to be shaming the pro-breastfeeding camp. From his response:

France addressed concerns that he was shaming breastfeeding, with the TV personality explaining, according to Insider: "To any of those women who are watching this, I’m not saying breastfeeding is bad. We’re not judging you for breastfeeding. It’s wonderful that you have the luxury and the privilege to be able to feed your baby with your breasts....

"Luxury" and "privilege" are words often used by people on the left to call out for someone being an oppressor. And I observe that as a liberal myself.

I'm not very familiar with this guy (Tan France) beside this but I'm a little curious as to what his motivations are, given his responses.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

"Luxury" and "privilege" are words often used by people on the left to call out for someone being an oppressor.

Which is bs.

They are comparing biology differences between the sexes to socioeconomical injustice. This makes no sense!

[–]Femaleisnthateful 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Seriously. Am I 'privileged' that I can take a dump in the toilet instead of using a colostomy bag? Women's bodies are designed for breastfeeding.

It's amazing how quickly the cultural narrative has shifted from "Every mother should breastfeed" to "breastfeeding is a luxury of the privileged". The scary part is how quickly institutions like La Leche League will step in line.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The scary part is how quickly institutions like La Leche League will step in line.

Do you think these institutions care about women? lmao!

They care about money, that's all.