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[–]DimDroog 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

However, the thing I apparently clearly haven't accepted yet is the lack of attraction to men. I absolutely hate being different from other women.

Op, thank you for clearing something up.

I went through a similar thing not wanting children, and being told I was a freak et al, for hating the whole "culture" around pregnancy, childbirth, babies, etc.

It also shows, as someone below stated, how important it is for lesbians to be able to meet and have their own spaces.

I HOPE you will feel better!

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Thank you for your sweet answer! It's interesting how this sentiment can apply for other situations as well. Take care and hope you're well too <3

[–]DimDroog 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You are welcome.

I never thought that lesbians would feel strange/bad for not being attracted to men.

I hope you find all the happiness in your life!

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I mean, honestly being a lesbian ruined my teenage years. I feel like they were robbed from me. When you don't have a support system and everyone's constantly asking you if you have a boyfriend and about guys all the freaking time and all the trying to fit in was exhausting and I hated it and I still have problems on that as you can see. Thank you once again.