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[–]reluctant_commenter 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm going to play devil's advocate here and say this: he brought this upon himself.

Did he? All we know is that he originally said, "Sure I'm fine with vagina," and then he changed his mind. He could well have been, say, sexually inexperienced and thought it would be no biggie to have PiV because he had no idea what he was talking about. Considering the average age on LGBT subreddits skews very young, I wouldn't be surprised if this were the case.

This woman is shaming the guy for changing his mind about a sex act. That is wrong and in my opinion, is borderline rapey behavior same as if an AGP male had done it. And if a straight man did that to a straight woman, people would be up in arms and for good reason.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Did he? All we know is that he originally said, "Sure I'm fine with vagina," and then he changed his mind. He could well have been, say, sexually inexperienced and thought it would be no biggie to have PiV because he had no idea what he was talking about. Considering the average age on LGBT subreddits skews very young, I wouldn't be surprised if this were the case

Yes, when he decided to cave and actively validate her delusions he sealed his own fate in this doomed relationship.

It's important to acknowledge the role of TRAs in brainwashing gays and lesbians but also personal responsability.

I hope this served for him to learn to be a little more critical of this shit in the future.

This woman is shaming the guy for changing his mind about a sex act. That is wrong and in my opinion, is borderline rapey behavior same as if an AGP male had done it. And if a straight man did that to a straight woman, people would be up in arms and for good reason.

Agreed.

The people on the comments shaming the guy for not giving up his boundaries are horrible human beings and shouldn't be given a free pass.