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[–]ThrowMeAway2879[S] 27 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 2 fun -  (13 children)

TFW you actually found that gay unicorn who thinks he is into you, but then realize that means that he is absolutely not into vagina.

I mean, I don't think her boyfriend's a Kinsey-6, maybe a 5, but still: What's with the surprised Pickachu face? Isn't this an FMT's dream?

[–]hufflepuff-poet 28 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 0 fun29 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Right, wouldn't PiV be "super invalidating"....this is so sad. These kids are having sex they don't want with people they aren't attracted to, the amount of sexual trauma they're gonna have to unpack in the coming years is gonna be intense. Someone needs to tell these kids it's ok to be homosexual, bisexual or heterosexual as long as you're practicing consent and mutual pleasure.

[–]DropItLikeItsHot 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You would think so, but because transgenderism is rooted in personal identity mental illness, their behavior is wildly inconsistent and hypocritical at times whenever they feel it's self serving and vAlIdAtInG. Because she can't get pleasure from anal she's forced to use the sex organ that does give her pleasure, the female sex organ, and do mental gymnastics to justify how it's not heterosexual.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

These kids are having sex they don't want with people they aren't attracted to, the amount of sexual trauma they're gonna have to unpack in the coming years is gonna be intense.

This considering a good portion of them aren't fetishists who get off on this.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They believe their own propaganda this point and think their vagina is really a male organ.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

It's only super invalidating if it's a straight man involved apparently. Eyeroll emoji.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 15 insightful - 4 fun15 insightful - 3 fun16 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

I mean, I don't think her boyfriend's a Kinsey-6, maybe a 5, but still: What's with the surprised Pickachu face? Isn't this an FMT's dream?

Or maybe he's just an idiot who gaslighted himself into believing that this relationship would work.

What did he achieved with this? A shit sex life and an unsatisfied partner? lol

[–]reluctant_commenter 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Was about to say this. Seriously, there is so much pressure among people in my generation to seem "open-minded" and say that you are open to and accepting of literally anything in sex. I've witnessed many of my peers, IRL, shame each other if someone implies that they have preferences deemed "too vanilla." We don't know this guy's sexual orientation, he well could be gay.

Hope he is doing okay and finds a way out of this toxic relationship.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

they seem way to open to things they know deep down they wont like. like dating a transman. Its all because they believe in a ll the new definitions of sexuality.

[–]DimDroog 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I hope he's at least bi.

It's sad to think of a gay or lesbian person forcing themselves to like something. JHC, this is triggering.

The creep I lost my virginity to was disgusting, and I had to gaslight myself into thinking he wasn't

I was 16, he was 25!!

This is exactly why I flip out when I see older folks preying on teens.

It enrages me.

I should have waited till I was 21, when I met a really nice man my age.

He was a lovely person.

I'm sad for every person that has been gaslight into sex.

It's disgusting.

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's sad to think of a gay or lesbian person forcing themselves to like something. JHC, this is triggering.

Yeah... I hear you. It is sad. I actually did something similar when I was younger, forced myself to date/have sex with a guy (I am a lesbian woman) because my family hates homosexuality. I thought I just wasn't trying hard enough to be straight. Being on this sub and talking with other LGB people has actually helped me a lot in coming to realize how normal my feelings are.

It IS disgusting. I'm so sorry that happened to you. <3 Hoping your life is much more peaceful these days.

[–]DimDroog 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It is sad. I actually did something similar when I was younger, forced myself to date/have sex with a guy (I am a lesbian woman) because my family hates homosexuality. I thought I just wasn't trying hard enough to be straight.

Terrible, just awful.

I hope you too are doing better!

[–]pacsatonifil 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I don’t think it will ever be enough. Maybe it’s a straight guy and doesn’t want to get her pregnant. I have a straight friend that legit asked what if he pretended to be gay and go out with a trans man that looks like a woman