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[–]howdidthishappen 39 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 0 fun40 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I know some people might have trauma or some justified reason other than transphobia, which is fine

This shit is one of the few things that come out of their mouths that actually still makes my blood boil. Like yeah sorry I guess I need to get raped first so that these homophobic shitheads can accept the fact I only like pussy.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Pretty sure the only reason they say this is so they can claim it as a reason to not need to date other trans people.

[–]julesburm1891 35 insightful - 1 fun35 insightful - 0 fun36 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

she discovers I still have my penis

Oh, so you just whipped your dick out without having disclosed you’re a dude and are mad you couldn’t guilt her into sucking it? What a rapey asshole

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

They haven't seen the Crying Game. Smh.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Thank god he at least had the decency of not forcing himself on her.

I know, low bar, but still...

[–]julesburm1891 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

“Not forcibly raping someone” is the lowest bar in existence. It’s fucked that we’ve even had to acknowledge it as a bar.

[–]Chipit 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It grows out of the accepted consensus view that all men are rapists.

Ergo; any man who overcomes his rapist nature is exceptional and to be praised. It's not a low bar at all. It's like a tiger agreeing to get his fangs extracted so that he can no longer eat meat.

[–][deleted] 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I recognize that some people have preferences, but she should have communicated that with you

How? How are we supposed to communicate that when these assholes took away all the words we would use to do that? Normally we'd just say lesbian or homosexual and that should be good to communicate the lack of interest in dick, but these fuckfaces intentionally confuse those terms so that communication is lost.

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Also, why is it on the majority to communicate to the minority? Let's pretend for a moment that every single trans person completely passes and you really can't tell until you get them naked (which, I mean come on). So, if I go on a date with a guy, I don't know if he's a biological male or if he's a trans man and have no way to tell until we're in bed. Let's say I go out with ten guys. One of them (and even this is a ridiculously high chance) will be trans.

So I have to tell 10 guys, 9 of which are just regular old men, that I'm not into trans men, implying to the 9 non trans men that I think they are trans? That's so fucking stupid. Why can't the 1 trans man say upfront that he's trans instead of me having to go around assuming everyone's trans? They've gotta know that they're an extreme minority of the population, right?

[–]shveya 23 insightful - 6 fun23 insightful - 5 fun24 insightful - 6 fun -  (3 children)

I doubt he even got that far with "the lesbian", his post history says he's only been ID'ing as trans for a few days.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 18 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

So a month ago, it's a-ok and valid as heck for a lesbian to reject him but today she'd be a "transphobe" for turning down his "stunning and brave girldick"...

TRAs grasp on reality becomes more and more tenuous everyday.

[–]SexualityCriticalSuper-androphilic male 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

"I've identified as a trans man for the past two minutes! All the cis dudes are now legally required to stimulate my clit!"

[–]Destresse🇨🇵 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, plus, in the comments he apparently said the lesbian knew he was trans already. She wouldn't have reacted like this if she'd known. He didn't even try to make the story consistent

[–]ThrowMeAway2879[S] 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Can also be filed under "not sure if OP is a troll or just delusional".

[–]Retardation_station 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"She shouldn’t have put you in that awful situation knowing she wasn’t okay with you being trans"

Wow. Apparently, blaming the victim sounds like shit no matter how it's done.

[–]Tikiri 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Someone says that OP clearly stated that he’s trans before they got to the bedroom part, which made me lol‼️ Suuuuuure he did. And he was NOT manipulative and gaslighting at all amirite?🙄

[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

OP came out as trans one day prior to that post

Just more lying for upvotes in r/LGBT, while continuing to make everyone hate lesbians and other women.

[–]Tikiri 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That’s what I thought too. Even if he did meet her for the date, there’s no way he passed so well that he shocked her with his 🍆 only after they got to the bedroom. Much more likely she was shocked when they first met (if there even was a date), but he can’t make a dramatic story of “transphobia” for reddit with that!

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

If he did so, she would have turned tail and bolted in the same millisecond.

[–]davids877Straight Male Man 6 insightful - 8 fun6 insightful - 7 fun7 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

I'm Trans... Oh, you like trains, that's cool.

[–]Bubsytext 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

When talking about anyone other than bisexuals, 'genital preference' gives me such a rage. Absolutely homophobic, I really hate these people

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Why it ok for bisexuals? Im attracted to men who present as men and women who present as women. My attraction has nothing to do with a preference. It is simply the way I am.

[–]Bubsytext 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I was refering to how bisexuals like both sexs but lean to a certain sex, so they essentialy prefer one over the other.

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Fair enough. I can agree with that.

[–][deleted] 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

AITA if I am an incel with AGP?

I'm glad the lesbian humiliated him

[–]JulienMayfair 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I suspect a lot of these stories are fake and made up for attention/sympathy. There really aren't that many transwomen out there you can't clock within a few seconds.

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Transwomen? Fantasists?

Yeah, now that you mention it. Wise not to take this seriously.