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[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

There’s a long standing acceptance of transwomen among gay men who often times aren’t even clear on the difference between drag queens and transwomen. I believe it comes from a time when transwomen were very much a part of the gay community and bar scene. Most of them back in the day were gay men who fooled themselves or were fooled into thinking they must be women. It’s tragic really because so many of them fucked up their lives getting awful operations and a good percentage killed themselves. I was just the other day reading the sad story of a trans drag queen who was the doorbitch at my favourite club in my youth. He so regretted having that operation but there was nothing to be done so he soldiered on but eventually it got to him and he suicided.

[–]linda_senora 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I would imagine that gay men accepted the trans identifying males who are now called homosexual transexual. What about the kind of trans identifying males who claim to be lesbians?

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

They pretty much didn’t exist until cross dressers came out of their closets and started living the dream full time. Having said that I do recall a leather faux-dyke where I live who was trans and created much angst and rage by turning up in fetish gear at the like of Reclaim the Night rallies.

[–]linda_senora 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thaks for replying.

I am not too familiar with the gay scene. One of my male cousins was gay, but he was much older than me and I realized we were not close enough for me to ask questions about that aspect of his life.

And he did not owe me any answers had I asked.