I feel like the lack of role is like the best part of being homo and I totally refuse any kind of relationship that resembles gender roles or any kind of power play. Totally against it. There is a kind of freedom of expression that you can have dating same sex that you can hardly have in a normal hetero relationship.At the same time, the extreme minority making dating way harder, sense of isolation from an hetero dominating culture, it's really bad. I think that doesn't matter if society change, you're always being an extreme minority and that is a struggle