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[–]Tikiri 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

How much of a TRA is he? I mean, I think almost all (if not all) of us started out being TRAs, and we all came to realize what these people truly were/wanted. If you can have productive conversations with him about TRAs - without sacrificing your mental and emotional health and well-being! - it may be worth seeing how it’ll work out.

BUT - you also should see how much time that’s taking i.m.h.o. If it’s a constant timesuck, or whatever you find to be too much time, then break it off. Because the more time you spend trying to talk to him about it, the more chances you lose of finding the right man.

[–]jjdub7TERF (Trans Exterminating Reactionary Fascist)[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We chatted a bit about it last night. Seems like he's just a passive ally, not really gung-ho TRA, but just on board because of The Initialism.

Let the peaking begin - I've got "emotional labor" to spare.