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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In bed as you know I am more of a giver and in general I do actually woud prefer to be the one buying the flower and moving the chair than the other way around. I'm naturally someone who is good at flirting and complimenting. But I would also like the be courted, I am a fucking woman, after all. Being more assertive in online dating is not hard, but go to make the first move in person is too hard for me. Women, at least the feminine one that I want to date, tend to be passive. I've got this tendency to put women on pedestal or thinking I've to impress them, low self-esteem. But I realize I need to stop doing it. No woman deserves to be put on a pedestal, except a woman who loves me and respects me as I am.If a woman wants to be impressed, she can fuck off. I'd rather being alone than having to do what men do. Its just too stressful. Must to be mutual, not one-sided.