RantLesbian in the middle of straight girl friends - wanted to cry

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[–]schomee 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (13 children)

That's because you have no idea what it's like to have a genuine community of other gays and lesbians. You sound like some broken person. It's like you're some martian who resigned yourself to live amongst the humans. We're alien to these people. You'd understand the feeling when you experience meeting your own "kind".

We come from heterosexuals and that's fine but let's not pretend there aren't hundreds of millions of markers of theirs that are tied to their sexuality that's alienating. We can write their love stories better than they can, make them cry over romantic, beautiful heterosexual romances that we've imagined...so it's not like theyre mysterious to us but we're still our own people and it feels completely different when you're in a room filled with a group of people you dont have to struggle expressing yourself to.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 14 insightful - 8 fun14 insightful - 7 fun15 insightful - 8 fun -  (3 children)

Honestly, my idea of Hell is an eternity in a room full of only gay men. Especially when they exhibit the toxicity that can pop up in, for example, oh, I don't know, the comment to which I'm currently responding.

[–]MyLongestJourney 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

That's because you have no idea what it's like to have a genuine community of other gays and lesbians

I want to be a person like everyone else,who just happens to be homosexual and not make my homosexuality the center of my being.

You sound like some broken person

I am a well adjusted person thank you very much.

It's like you're some martian who resigned yourself to live amongst the humans.

I am a human who lives among other humans.

We're alien to these people.

Not as much as you think. But then again if you lock yourself in a ghetto,instead of building bridges you may never find out.I build bridges. I let them see I am human like them.The only difference is me being homosexual.

You'd understand the feeling when you experience meeting your own "kind".

I have met plenty of my kind,they are called humans,both heterosexual and homosexual.

We come from heterosexuals and that's fine but let's not pretend there aren't hundreds of millions of markers of theirs that are tied to their sexuality that's alienating. We can write their love stories better than they can, make them cry over romantic, beautiful heterosexual romances that we've imagined...so it's not like theyre mysterious to us but we're still our own people and it feels completely different when you're in a room filled with a group of people you dont have to struggle expressing yourself to.

Stop projecting your inferiority complex to every homosexual person. I have zero problems expressing myself to heterosexual people again because my only difference from them is me being homosexual.

[–]schomee 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

When insulting someone, at least try and make it stick to the person. Where's the "inferiority complex" when most people would accuse me of having a superiority complex. For you to be so easily wounded by a mere comment is a bit embarrassing.

And it's people with your attitude that caused this problem in the first place. We've discussed people like you on here. The type who were desperate to "assimilate" but there's nothing for you to assimilate into. People like you were so cowardly and eager to leap into the arms of heterosexuals that you abandoned the gay community to everyone else. Homosexuals cant assimilate into heterosexual identities and culture. And i genuinely believe gays have a superior culture since our sexuality isnt regulated by so many institutions with barbaric histories and beliefs (just look at how the patriarchy regulates heterosexual women and how they screw themselves over by trying to assimilate into it).

And you also forego any responsibilities you have to gay and lesbian children by helping create an identity for them to navigate the world with. Nice.

[–]MyLongestJourney 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

When insulting someone

Kettle calling the pot etc

And it's people with your attitude that caused this problem in the first place. We've discussed people like you on here. The type who were desperate to "assimilate" but there's nothing for you to assimilate into. People like you were so cowardly and eager to leap into the arms of heterosexuals that you abandoned the gay community to everyone else. Homosexuals cant assimilate into heterosexual identities and culture.

Only people with severe personality disorders fail to assimilate to society.You appear to be suffering from several or perhaps your home is a bridge.My community is with other humans.My only difference from them is me being homosexual.

And i genuinely believe gays have a superior culture since our sexuality isnt regulated by so many institutions with barbaric histories and beliefs (just look at how the patriarchy regulates heterosexual women and how they screw themselves over by trying to assimilate into it).

Talk about delusion over 9000.There is no such thing as a homosexual culture

And you also forego any responsibilities you have to gay and lesbian children by helping create an identity for them to navigate the world with. Nice.

What they need is to grow up to be well adjusted,mature,responsible,critical thinking individuals. The greatest catastrophe for them would be to center their being on their homosexuality.

[–]schomee 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

" I believe. I BELIEVE! I BELIEVE in the one-ness of humanity! that we are all the same and if anyone cant assimilate then, then!!!..." Are you on drugs? Can i have some? Your delusions seem fun.

Do women "assimilate" into male identities? And what heterosexual identities do homosexuals assimilate into? Their christian churches? Their heterosexual centered belief systems? It seems you know nothing about gay/lesbian history, our accomplishments as a people and what makes us unique. You seem to be missing about 99% of gay identity. I truly do pity you. As for poverty, only someone who's deeply financially stressed or comes from poverty struggles with cultural poverty as well. Now who's projecting? And why do you have such a low IQ? "only people with severe disorders fail to assimilate"...ahhh, yes. That's why exceptional communities are all waiting in line to "assimilate" into whatever comes their way.

You seem to be flailing and swinging your arms into the air, not caring what comes out of your mouth as long as you say something to contradict what i said, even if it ends up contradicting yourself as well lol

[–]MyLongestJourney 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

I believe. I BELIEVE! I BELIEVE in the one-ness of humanity! that we are all the same and if anyone cant assimilate then, then!!!..." Are you on drugs? Can i have some? Your delusions seem fun.

Kettle etc

Do women "assimilate" into male identities? And what heterosexual identities do homosexuals assimilate into? Their christian churches? Their heterosexual centered belief systems?

Assimilate # adjust. You can both have your own personality,be a free thinker and be a well adjusted,productive individual.I see no gain in enclosing myself in a ghetto,neither do I have any desire of doing so.I also do not share your disdain for heterosexual people.As gay and lesbian history shows,we can work with them and we can make them understand us.

You seem to be missing about 99% of gay identity.

Yeah,because being homosexual is only part of my "identity" the rest is taken by being a woman, daughter, sister,Greek,scientist,professional,proponent of reason,science,democracy and free speech and staunch supporter of the Western Civilization.

As for poverty, only someone who's deeply financially stressed or comes from poverty struggles with cultural poverty as well.

As a Greek,LOL.Remembering my ancestors double LOL.

? And why do you have such a low IQ?

I made the mistake to read your posts and my brain cells entered mass apoptosis.

[–]Cass 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

calling someone broken bc they have empathy and aren't socially awkward

getting called out

ermarghed so emparassing wtf is wrong with you

stfu