Oh, you mean the homophobia that completely restructured our society for 2000 years has had no effects on you? You're supposed to think systematically. Everything is infused with it. Gays and Lesbians even helped create it to help them. And you weren't disheartened because they were talking about dick. You were disheartened because no matter how hard you try, you have "a people" no matter how hard you try and pretend you share some sense of womanhood with the rest.

It's so interesting as a gay man to see people like you. You're a homosexual, yes, but your privilege as a woman experiencing homophobia is different from that of a gay man in a way that harms you even more. It would be considered absurd for gay males to even consider being friends with straight men and be part of some "patriarchy" but it's interesting to see lesbians erase their history and trick younger lesbians to think they've somehow always been friends with heterosexuals/bisexuals. I dont hate you but.. i just feel like you've been radicalized by the internet and a victim of historical revisionism so it's sad that you're going to have to relearn every single older lesbians forgot to tell you because they were too busy being "women" instead of homosexuals.