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[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 30 insightful - 2 fun30 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

We have every right to use a word we've reclaimed

Excuse me, WTF?

What did you reclaim exactly? You're a straight women who are larping as a gay men, you didn't reclaim shit.

You have no idea how is life growing up as a gay men, you do not have access to this experience, stop pretending you do.

You know what will happen if hardcore homophobia comes back? You're going to take the danger off your hair, quit your larping, and go on to live as the straight women you are.

You're not 'brave', never have been.

[–]reluctant_commenter 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

You know what will happen if hardcore homophobia comes back? You're going to take the danger off your hair, quit your larping, and go on to live as the straight women you are.

Exactly. LGB people can't identify out of being same sex attracted. This is the best way to figure out if someone's an identity tourist, unfortunately.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

But you can't call them out on it until everything falls through, and then they can always say that they thought they were X or Y, but turns out...

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's very true. We lose out even in that situation.