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[–]julesburm1891 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

He doesn’t identify as a man but wants to be in men’s spaces. By his side’s own logic, he’s an invasive asshole.

I’m just going to take a stab in the dark and guess that the gay men in these spaces don’t like having him hang around solely because he’s a whiney and self-absorbed prick.

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

My husband and I were friends with some people that were polyamorous (which kind of came up out of nowhere if I think about it, like we were all friends for years before suddenly everyone in the friend group was poly and in a relationship with each other), and their friends that started hanging around after they went poly were so insufferable that my husband and I had to just dip out of that social circle.

I couldn't give two shits who they were sleeping with or what they were doing to their pre-existing relationships; like, you wanna be poly, fine, do what you want. But they were the same sorts of people and I'd wager anything that half of them or more identify as nonbinary now. This one girl spent two hours talking to us about how wild her life was and how she used to live at the circus and slept on a bed of nails, and how amazing and wonderful she is, blah blah blah, like anyone really cares. It's so annoying!!

Do they really have so little self-awareness that they see people in their lives dropping them and they think, "It's everyone else who's the asshole, not me."?

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That’s most likely why they don’t like him. Nobody wants to be around whiny people.