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[–]angelduster 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

It really irks me how so many of the commenters are tripping and falling over each other to be "inclusive" and make sure everyone knows how icky TERFs are. But some of the comments are also just, I'm not sure how to describe it? Unsettling?

You know, I get the whole larger dick thing being off putting to some lesbians but it doesn't bug me cuz I'm a top and there's a plethora of fun to be had with lady dicks that isn't so different from what I'd do with cis partners.

I...what?? "being off putting to some lesbians" only some?? Maybe I'm just weirded out because there seems to be a lot of focusing on male genitalia in this thread on a subreddit for "actual lesbians."

Also, one of the commenters referred to themselves as a "non op enby lesbian" and what is that? I'm not even trying to be mean or rude, I literally don't understand it.

[–]howdidthishappen[S] 5 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah that one is really bad.

As for the rest:

non op = has penis + balls

enby = non binary

lesbian = what he isn’t

Btw there was another one who said he „wants nothing more than to be a gay butch lady and it means the world to be accepted by queerwomen, as a queer woman.„

His flair also said NB, but along with „AMAB masc“ and that’s now become my favorite fuckery to ever come out of this sub. Literally a gender conforming man who wants to be accepted as a „gay butch lady“ and he obviously is judging by the upvotes.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wonder if he wants to be "accepted as a gay butch lady" in real life too or only in lesbian spaces where that identity benefits his dick 🙄