BisexualFeeling Isolated As A GC Bisexual.

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[–]HelloMomo 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I've seen bisexuals get told they "have no excuse," and bisexuals (especially bi women) treated like some communal sexual resource. It's fucked up.

[–]Ladiablapequena[S] 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Yes, I've seen this in action. The TQ+ crowd treats bi's as a consolation prize that's not quite good enough.

I've read numerous confessions of them saying that dating bi people triggers them because we actually might be attracted to their male or female bodies.

Also like to call us cum dumpsters and diseased but still feel some sort of entitlement to a relationship with a bisexual. I've experienced some weird indignant rage when I tell them "actually not really into trans people". Like how dare you lowly nympho maniac deny me you're supposed to accept everything.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Also like to call us cum dumpsters and diseased but still feel some sort of entitlement to a relationship with a bisexual. I've experienced some weird indignant rage when I tell them "actually not really into trans people". Like how dare you lowly nympho maniac deny me you're supposed to accept everything.

Yeah, since they refuse to understand that we're a sexual orientation rather than the Ultimate Sluts, what they hear when you say this is: "I'm DTF everyone except YOU". When really the truth is probably more like, "I'm not DTF the vast majority of people, INCLUDING YOU".

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You heard of the Social Safety Net? The presumed duty of bisexuals is to be a kind of Sexual Safety Net for trans who take the risky gamble on transitioning in some way and to some degree but never succeed in their goal of passing and/or getting someone of their preferred orientation and sex. So whenever a Bi somewhere states that they don't actually want any trans, they feel the acute fear that this safety net(that is suppose to always gently catch them in their lowest moment of abject failure) simply might not be there at all.. and them possibly hitting the cold hard ground of rejection completely unmitigated. That is why there is such an extreme reaction to bisexuals expressing any sexual autonomy. Especially if their transition is irreversible.

[–]Ladiablapequena[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Interesting. I have not but it makes sense. This makes it even more important for bisexual to wake up and speak out against the TQ+ community.

[–]shveya 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's so rapey.

[–]Daddiescummies 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

But that's not a problem specific to trans people. It's literally just rape culture.