BisexualFeeling Isolated As A GC Bisexual.

submitted by Ladiablapequena from (self.LGBDropTheT)

Just a small vent. As a bisexual woman I feel kinda alone because it seems like many other bisexual support TRA BS.

I'm not attracted to gender identities but attracted to the male and female sex. I do not like men with breast implants, artificial hormones, and an inverted penis just because I like feminine men. Same for women, I do not like the effects of testosterone nor want a pseudo penis just because I like masculine women. I'm expected to be OK with trans people just because I like both and that's not how it works for me attraction wise.

I just wish I saw more bisexuals speaking up and out against what the trans community is doing.

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[–][deleted] [score hidden] stickied comment (3 children)

Good lord y'all, this thread is NOT your excuse to shit all over bisexuals as a class. Sorry OP.

We're all in this together as LGBDropTheT. TQ+ is attacking all sexual orientations, and as we've all seen recently, even heteros. TQ+ is also trying to legally mandate the word "sex" out of existence, which affects all of us.

Some of you seem very enmeshed in your sense of victimization, and blame bisexuals for the harm and trauma you've experienced. If you could look beyond that, maybe you could empathize with OP and find common ground. Or, if you hate bisexuals so much, stay out of bisexual threads maybe? Head on over to a non-bisexual sub and rant it out? You have options.

This is not the Oppression Olympics, and we won't tolerate bringing that kind of behavior here. We allow the airing of our dirty laundry, but you have to stay on-topic and be respectful/civil to each other.

We do not allow biphobia in this sub, and we don't particularly care if you think it doesn't exist. If this behavior persists, bans will be handed out.

[–]throwaway999 31 insightful - 1 fun31 insightful - 0 fun32 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I feel you. Keep your head up, you're not alone. As a GC bi, you're setting an example for all other bis, so they can understand they don't have to believe in this ideology. Continue to speak out and stand up for yourselves and our allies (L&G, kids, other women).

[–]Ladiablapequena[S] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll keep speaking up and hope more bi's follow suit. <3

[–]Ladiablapequena[S] 12 insightful - 10 fun12 insightful - 9 fun13 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

Comes back 10 hours later

Uhhhh, What happened? looool

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Hello! As a lesbian, I'm more than happy to watch bi people being critical of this TQ+ ideology. I hope this helps more bis to realise how toxic this ideology can be, including bisexuals. It's hard for us right now, it really is, therefore it's more important than ever that we stick together. Best wishes.

[–]Ladiablapequena[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks! The cotton ceiling was my peak trans moment.

I really dislike that they're harassing LG people with their BS. I hope more bi's join me in speaking out against this homophobia and colonization of the LGB by the TQ+ crowd.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Can't cope with this explosion along with the one I was just replying to on this topic, so I will let myself speak for myself and offer you this commiseration—you'll find more of this in our past threads, so hopefully you will feel a little less isolated while hanging out here (though, the pile-ons of late have been both embarrassing and disappointing): https://saidit.net/s/LGBDropTheT/comments/845h/b_in_lg_spaces_dilemma/u7as?context=3

[–]Ladiablapequena[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you! <3

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, me neither. Here are a couple interesting topics on the banned SuperBis sub about this issue:

https://archive.vn/sAydQ

https://archive.is/5m2nk

[–]our_team_is_winning 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I can't stand this assumption that being bi means supporting "trans" -- "trans" is just extreme cosplay. It's stupid at best and highly offensive and dangerous most of the time.

Everything the OP said, YES!

"trans" is narcissism and fetish. Yuck.

It's like someone bringing you weeds out of the yard and saying "well, here, you're vegetarian right, so you'll eat this."

I don't like seeing how many people attack bisexual people as though we're enemy agents. There's a LOT of LARPers among alleged bisexuals I think. Beware of "bisexual" being used like "queer" among the trendy wokesters.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I will say I am also someone who likes masculine women and feminine men it's kinda annoying how what was former be yourself and ignore gender roles is going to if you break them you are totally trans and need medical treatment.

The root of the problem just comes down to no means no. Sexual preferences don't need to be explained as long as it is consensual relationship of the parties involved. You would think today this shouldn't need an explanation.

[–]DimDroog 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Transgender ideology is so regressive, it's unbelievable.

Oh, you're a male who likes tea, kittens, and Murder She Wrote?

You're trans!

You're a female who likes lifting weights, war movies, and works on farms?

Congrats, you're a boy!

The above is a friend, and below is myself.

Gender roles are toxic.

I thought we'd left this garbage behind, only to see it rear up it's 1950's head with Transgender nonsense.

Worse, children are being targeted.