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[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through all this.

You seem like a strong woman. And that is probably the reason she treats you like this. Somewhere deep inside in her conscienceness she knows she is not trans. But if you , her strong lesbian friend will be trans too then she is right in her decision.

Do not give in and stop being nice to her and be nice to you.

Look her straight in the eyes and tell her you are a lesbian. That you respected her new choices and pronouns and that you expect her to do the exact same thing for you and if not you have to rethink this friendship. Mention you will not have the conversation again.

Remember "No." is a full sentence.

Like someone else said your entire existence is a walking billboard that she is doing something very stupid. Even if you are polite i'm not sure she will be able to stay friends with you if she doubles down on the trans thing.