DiscussionBi men in gay spaces – examples of constant homophobia, misinformation and undermining our definitions

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[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

To complicate matters, if the opportunity were presented to me under the right circumstances (the biggest hypothetical condition being that I was not in a monogamous relationship), I would consider messing around with a trans-man who had a functional vagina. I don't consider myself meaningfully bisexual, i.e. probably 5.9 on the Kinsey scale. But it would be an opportunity to see what vaginal sex was like while all the other boxes were ticked. I would very likely not be interested in a LTR with a trans-man because I like le coque too much.

But for me the issue is one of consent and personal choice. It's presumptuous to assume that any gay man must consider trans-men as part of their dating pool or even their hookup pool. If some gay men are interested: cool. It has nothing to do with my interest level or that of any other gay man.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

You could try out a vagina if you want, but you’re still having sex with a woman. If it helps you to understand your orientation better, so be it. But if you enjoyed it, you’re bisexual, you may still prefer men but you’re still bi. If you don’t enjoy it, then you know you’re gay.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Do you think we need to sleep with opposite sex to know our orientation?

[–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay[S] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

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