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[–]chazzstrong 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (9 children)

Do me a favor, don't lump me up with some random group of people I don't know because we share 'x' in common.

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    [–]chazzstrong 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (7 children)

    ...what the fuck are you even talking about? It's fairly clear you've got some bigoted view against bisexuals for some odd ass reason, I'm guessing your crush turned out to be bi or 'bye' and you still can't cope with it. I don't give a fuck about your sexual regressions. The way you're trying to force me into the mold of your inner boogeyman is beyond fucking pathetic, and I think you should get some help for that. You're being WAY too aggressive to a random ass stranger online, there's clearly mental issues involved, and I want no part of them.

    All I know is between your 'internalized homophobia' and 'invading spaces' spiel, you sound like you'd be more at home on r/LGBT.

    [–]schomee 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

    Yes, the political and social criticism of bisexuals such as yourself comes from people that secretly want to have sex with you, even though your entire community bonds over how no gay or lesbian would date you.

    And the childish, right wing fit you throw while acting like the very people you dont like: "you're just like the people at LGBT!"...yes, that's why gays and lesbians were baned en masse for criticizing the homophobia of all the other letters there invading their spaces.

    And you're not some boogeyman. You're an annoying sex pest. Gays and lesbians dont even acknowledge your existence. We're not the ones banging on doors, screaming and threatening people to let us "in". You are.

    You're speaking to people as if there are 3 tribes in some fantasy science fiction world where you remove all context, all history to exonerate yourself and pretend you're just some lone individual (typical tactic for violent aggressors to advance their interests) which transforms you into some victim rather than someone who benefits from societal homophobia.

    And people like you have been a pest to the gay community for decades. We know your type. Yes, you fit the mold. You're not some unique, magical special snowflake. You're a very common type.

    [–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

    Since most of this sub's mods are bi, what are you always doing here, getting those BI COOTIES OH NOES all over you?

    Seems like YOU are more than happy to avail yourself of a resource that bi people are critical to creating and maintaining... which you use almost exclusively to tell US how WE don't belong, and contribute nothing. Unlike such prize specimens as YOUR preening, seething ass!

    Go find some other community to parasitize, m'kay?

    [–]schomee 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

    hmmm, what a perfect response from you. Absolutely perfect. Now how about you follow your own advice and remove yourself from every single gay and lesbian organization and stop demanding we represent you when you do nothing?

    How about you focus on your people and help them understand that theyre not victims because their narcissism isnt being indulged?

    "using bisexual resources and not paying us respect" HMMMM, so a gay man takes your $0.05 candy and you want to be respected for some shitty forum on an internet site, yet you and your people are trying to swim in a whole ass mountain of gold and diamonds worth of resources built by gays and lesbians through their immeasurable sacrifices which you cant deny even if you try to yet you're here complaining about criticism which you deserve?

    You need every single bisexual, especially bisexual women, to take out entire mortgage loans for at least 200 years to pay back all the debt you're in from the benefits you get from gays and lesbians.

    Do you think you're talking to some straight man or what? Seriously, do you? I'm at ovarit as well so i see your ridiculousness of this whole "emotional labour" garbage while ignoring actual, real labour which gays and lesbians have to put extra effort into ignoring how greatly you benefit from it.

    This whole, "the piece of dust on my shoulder demands your personal attention and resources so dont focus on your actual bullet wounds" wont fly with anyone. I dont see lesbians acting like obnoxious princesses so where do you get off with this sense of entitlement. It's clearly not linked to womanhood and is learned behaviour. Fix it. Seems like AGP narcissism is more of a hetero/bi thing rather than just an AGP thing. Theyre trying to imitate your "princess mode".

    [–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    Now how about you follow your own advice and remove yourself from every single gay and lesbian organization and stop demanding we represent you when you do nothing?

    Would that include r/askgaybros (the only subreddit I frequent since the banwave), where I do nothing besides support gay men in their rejection of "boipussy"?

    When was the last time that YOU did anything for anyone ELSE? Oh, I forgot-- it's all about YOU! Never mind.

    I'm at ovarit as well so i see your ridiculousness of this whole "emotional labour" garbage while ignoring actual, real labour which gays and lesbians have to put extra effort into ignoring how greatly you benefit from it.

    Well, since I've never been a member there, you must need your eyes examined, then (not to mention your head).

    I dont see lesbians acting like obnoxious princesses so where do you get off with this sense of entitlement.

    Oh, what about when you were railing incessantly about how AWFUL lesbians were in your previous accounts? Did you forget? Well, don't worry-- the rest of us here haven't! So, to ask the traditional lawyer's question: were you lying then... or are you lying now?

    [–]schomee 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

    Oh yes, we're definitely talking about ridiculous internet sites like askgaybros...not the hundred million dollar lobbying and activist organizations that took decades to build almost exclusively by gays and lesbians which you wanted access to by trying to sabotage gays and lesbians with your "B with the T" movements.

    And Gays and Lesbians yelling at each other is absolutely none of your business. Gays and Lesbians dont have to like each other. We're political family whether we like it or not. That has nothing to do with you. And you know that, hence why bisexual women try and sabotage that link by pushing in the whole "we're women first!" attitude and use radical feminism to drive a wedge between the homosexual community. How do you think this problem started in the first place? Transexuals have no power. Theyre empowered by bisexuals. Who exactly do you think is sleeping with them?

    It's not like gays and lesbians are hiding some sort of great shame and secret that we're secretly sleeping with these things and in great denial. we've been tested. If there was even a 0.001% chance when we were younger to be capable of sleeping with the opposite sex, we'd take it to escape persecution. So we're fine. It's the people who think our entire community is based on rainbow flags and pride parades/alcohol that are having fun with them and we sense their resentment and bitterness.

    And how's your homophobia coming along? It's like gays and lesbians constantly have to parent you. You've turned the entire bisexual community into trash by transforming it into some radical man hating group to try to validate yourselves that you've screwed over the bisexual men. You and the bisexual men heavily rely on our infrastructure and community and you never reciprocate.

    You claim you're feeling "left out", im pretty sure the gay and lesbian kids at your church feel left out while you sneer at them as you get married in the church that brainwashes them into believing theyre subhuman. Or all the millions of other examples that force them to create their own communities which you suddenly want to be a part in yet forget how you "exclude" them from all the other areas they dont have access to.

    It's no different than those women who invade gay clubs who casually get "bored" of the straight clubs where they'd have no probably casually murdering gay people and has no problem being there and then jumping to a gay club with no understanding of how offensive that is.

    Whatever political philosophy you use, are straight men evil and irredeemable? Yes. But you try and strategically push gay men into the same category as the people you plan on having sex with, marrying, and joining their institutions and pretending you're somehow not part of some oppressive force to gays and lesbians. Im not vile like you, so i wont pretend you're evil but at least acknowledge the systems you benefit from.

    I highly doubt there are a bunch of bisexual women contributing to any movement to humanize same sex attraction in africa or iran or iraq. No one is saying theyre evil for not doing so because, why would they? The gay and lesbian africans probably just acknowledge it would be ridiculous to even think of them as allies because theyre too busy laughing and throwing rocks at the gays and lesbians since they see them as losers and freaks. But im sure future african gays and lesbians would have a massive problem with future african bisexuals saying, "you oppress us because you're wary of us!"

    [–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    And Gays and Lesbians yelling at each other is absolutely none of your business. Gays and Lesbians dont have to like each other. We're political family whether we like it or not.

    OK, then-- let's put this assertion of yours to the test!

    Calling all lesbian DropTheT-ers: do you consider yourself "political family" with the latest incarnation of Mr. Gay Male Supremacist here? I mean, he was excoriating ya a few months ago, but now you're a useful cudgel to attack bi women with! Sure, he doesn't LIKE you or anything, but he won't stab you in the back unless it suits him! And hey, maybe it won't! What MORE do you want???

    [–]schomee 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    aww, someone forgot all of gay and lesbian history. They dont get a choice in the matter. Maybe you can mention your shitty feminism bullshit. The weak link in the homosexual community is the lesbians because they screwed themselves over by trying to politically align with you and look at what you did.

    You think we dont see twitter? How you personally try and teach lesbian teenagers theyre worth nothing but sex with your whole "bisexual, heteroromantic" identities? I can recall my and every other gay guy's experience with bisexual men and and lesbians would think im reciting their own dynamics with bisexual women. I can recite my own personal experiences with homophobia and lesbians would think im describing their own experiences word for word that no bisexual would ever understand.

    We're homosexuals. That overrides everything else. And they did pay for price for thinking otherwise. Their punishment was you. Go over to twitter and now listen to what the overwhelming number of bisexual women are doing and saying to lesbians. Theyre basically at an open war with them simply because lesbians were wary of being used and taught theyre nothing but for "fun". SURPRISE! It's the same exact dynamic bisexual men had with gays. What did your counterparts used to say? "Women are for marriage and babies and men are for sex" lol.

    I guess yours would be, "men are for marriage and women are for sex". I dont have to pretend to be nice to lesbians. They dont have to pretend to be nice to me. Our interests align whether we like it or not. Yours dont and a decades long history proves that.