i have made a post similar to yours before they deleted truelesbians. i have seen a handful of posts similar to yours as well. lots of people will say that there is a way to respectfully disagree on this topic and move on, but i don’t think that’s possible when this ideology as touched like…the fabric of society so profoundly. like, are you going to be okay if he ever brings around trans lesbians or weird ass non binary people seeking your validation? or wants to go to “queer” get togethers? or actively “affirms” people’s genders? like, it’s not just about respectfully disagreeing. because it is not just an ideological discussion, it is something you have to engage in. my ex was incredibly indoctrinated with this ideology, and i couldn’t handle it a second longer when she brought home a trans lesbian who was clearly a dude in a dress with a beard. she brought me to “queer nights” and i got to see all of the ftms which made me severely depressed seeing a room full of self hating homosexuals and straight people LARPing like delusional psychopaths. yeah. so, my opinion is that you can break up over this. i had to break up with my ex, and i am happier.