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[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I agree with homophobia being subtle sometimes, but I really think she was just saying he might be fine with women in the men's room because he is gay and therefore not interested in the female body? Also the asian guy brought up sexual orientation (incorrectly) and she said that had nothing to do with it. She makes a crack at the end about his manhood, but she seems to be the type that feels men should be confronting and dealing with "perverts" in the changing rooms.

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he might be fine with women in the men's room because he is gay and therefore not interested in the female body

Do you think he was defending men in women's private areas because he was gay? Do gay men do that?

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

this is about what she thinks, so i was framing it that way. He was defending a trans woman in the bathroom, because many sjw gay men do do that. He rushed over and his first thought was not the possibility that there was an actual man in there, who identified as a man, but that it was a trans woman and this black women needed to be "educated."

also, I'm not sure why you quoted me because you reversed the scenario with your question, so I just answered your scenario, of men in women's areas.

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this is about what she thinks, so i was framing it that way

Why would you frame your thoughts around anyone else? We're done with that, aren't we? BE YOURSELF.

this is about what she thinks

No, it's not. This video is in THIS sub, so it's about what WE THINK. So be real to YOU.

We are here for LGB, not to represent women's rights and shit all over T and various men when a misstep is made. LGB is the focus here.

I'm not sure why you quoted me because you reversed the scenario with your question, so I just answered your scenario, of men in women's areas.

This isn't Reddit. I asked you, specifically, because I believe you will give real talk. Don't pander to me, I know you, shut up. Be real and talk for real.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Why would you frame your thoughts around anyone else? We're done with that, aren't we? BE YOURSELF.

You interpreted what she said as homophobic, I was trying to say it wasn't by explaining what I though she meant. I didn't see anything she said as homophobic. She said maybe you would not care if there is a woman in the mens room because your not interested in woman. That it wouldn't be a sexual situation. Are you saying its homophobic that she brought that up at all?

We are here for LGB, not to represent women's rights and shit all over T and various men when a misstep is made. LGB is the focus here.

I understand that, and why you would pull this video off, and also that you left it up to talk about what did apply to us, in your eyes, the homophobic part. I never wanted it to be GC 2.0 on reddit, or here. Anyway, I read somewhere there is a longer video of her saying it was a "cis" man in there, but I cant find it,and I don't use instagram. So it may not even be trans related. Do you see it as shitting on T? Theres a two year old review by another woman saying a guy was in there and she was fine with him being trans but she really felt he wasn't by his behavior and it creeped her out, so its happened there before. This is about no gatekeeping, self I.d., I say I'm a woman and I can enter any female space. The woman making the video, IMO doesn't realize loss of sex based rights also means dicks in the changing room, until it happened to her. That might just be me projecting though.

shit all over T and various men when a misstep is made

His first mistake was opening his mouth, it went downhill from there. But seriously, he is an sjw doing what they always do, come up and educate you about why you are wrong and a bigot as well. Not really a misstep.

Me: I'm not sure why you quoted me because you reversed the scenario with your question, so I just answered your scenario, of men in women's areas. You: This isn't Reddit. I asked you, specifically, because I believe you will give real talk. Don't pander to me, I know you, shut up. Be real and talk for real.

Your question confused me honesty, you quoted me talking about women in mens rooms but then YOU asked me about men in women's spaces. So I didn't know what you were asking me. As I responded before, yes, just like the libfem handmaidens, plenty of gay men (and women and bi's) are pushing the trans narrative hard, because they are lgbtqia+++ and think its their job as sjw's to protect the T. Like this shmuck https://twitter.com/Slatzism/status/1407365543309492232

Don't pander to me, I know you, shut up. Be real and talk for real.

What did i say was pandering? Btw you look lovely in that outfit. Anyway if I didn't answer your question, maybe rephrase it for me. I hope this thing is formatted right