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[–]schomee 35 insightful - 5 fun35 insightful - 4 fun36 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

I genuinely think they dont get the level of damage theyre doing here. All i see over and over and over again is this:

"hi, im a transbian and would like to date you"

Answer: "im sorry. im a lesbian. I've been through so much and was borderline suicidal and desperate to like dick. I feel like i've lost my family and some friends, my religion and everything over this. I just cant but good luck"

What they hear: "HAHA! Being lesbian is super VIP and it's an amazing super sexy club and you'll never be allowed in. You wish you could have my vagina but i'm just an evil bigot! Muwhahahahah!"


"Hi. I'm a bi lesbian"

Lesbian: "can you please not use that word? You know what we've been through. Heterosexuals are always out with their knives ready to convert lesbians, delegitimize us, turn us into a joke and the narratives are incessant and hostile; that our entire sexuality is just based on man hating. We'd like to move passed this so please dont"

What they hear: "HAHA we're the true lesbians! We're VIP and you'll never be one of us and we're super ultra exclusive and you're not. I only ask you of this not because it creates massive systemic problems which harm our community but because i'm an evil disgusting bigot....muwahahahah"

Every.Single.Time...for everything.

They never see the vulnerability that true homophobia causes and they simply dont care enough about spreading it.